- a standard of rules that all members can follow and have access to at any time without requiring a special injunction in order to receive them.
- clear accounting procedures with listed salaries, investments, donations, and tax summaries
- accountability for the behavior of the members and clergy/elders alike
- no perceived, threatened, or real consequences for participation or lack thereof
all I see here is a lot of blaming and self pity instead of being the adults that you are....I have never seen the things described in the blogs. Rape, abuse, etc. I do believe it is exaggerated.